Finding True Love

I speak- Finding True Love

Papa God has been so good to me.

Few years back, I deeply prayed and asked to Him for a man that will love me for real. 

Thank you so much for giving me a man that is worth waiting for. 

Finding true love..

The greatest definition of love is written on the bible.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

New International Version (NIV)

⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

⁸ Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

And I strongly believe in that. 

So for all the girls out there who are still single, waiting is not bad, for in the right time, at the right place, the right man for you will come along. 

Just learn to enjoy life with family, workmates, friends, classmates and people around you that truly cares for you. 

We only live once so we must make the best out of it. 

And to those who are happily in love right now, nourish your God's blessing and be forever thankful to Him that once in our lives, we had the opportunity to love and to be loved.  

Keep the love burning for yourself, for your partner and especially for our Great Creator. 

Here are some tips that I can give in finding true love, well, these were only be based on my personal and friends' experiences:

1. Go for the relationship that will make you happy. I am always saying this to myself that whatever will make me happy, I will just go for it despite of what other people will say or think about. This is my life so I will rule it.

2. Only yourself can know if she or he is the one meant for you. As the old saying says, know thyself.

3. Don't spend most of your time searching for it because sometimes the least you expect it,there it will come. Enjoy life while we still have it.

4. Just always be true to yourself. Never act or pretend to be anybody else just to please other people. If he or she is the right one for you, he or she will just accept you the way you are before you even meet each other. 

5. Never forget to pray to Him. Always ask for guidance and wisdom in choosing the right one for you. 

6. Don't be scared to gamble. You won't know it unless you'll try it. I also believe that love is sacrifice. You must have to take the risk to find out if he or she is worth that risk. If you failed, just keep on trying. Also remember that the only failure is the one who stops trying.

7. Just enjoy it. Being single is not a crime. Do all the things you wanna do. Improve your weaknesses and enhance your talents. Go out with friends and spend more time with family and of course God. No man is an island so don't prefer to be alone most of the time. Yeah for sometimes, we have to be alone to think everything but not so much that you're almost creating your own world. You were born to be a normal human not autistic. 

8. Don't look for a perfect one cause there's no such one. Learn to accept that everyone has their own weaknesses and ugliness within themselves. Understanding and accepting plays a major role in here.

9. I know this is hard to do but at least try it, balance you're heart and brain. Most of the time they were always on the opposite sides so you must know how to handle them well. 

10. Pray. Pray. Pray. Never lose hope, never give up. The right one for you will come despite of time. At least, it is God's time. 

Thank you for reading my thoughts...Hope I can help.

 :)